What a year it has been for me in 2009. I will not forget what 2009 has done for me. It gives me lots of sorrows & sadness, a tiny bit of happiness, a great progress in my work & extra income from another source. Thank You Allah swt.
I’ve finally completed my divorce proceeding two weeks ago on the 4th Dec 09. I’m single again for the 2nd time in my life. I’m also a single dad for the 1st time. Haha. I just hope my ex wife is happy now that we are divorced. Seeing her happy will make me happy indirectly even though deep inside me still feeling sad that we are no more together. My love for her still stand strong since the day I said it to her more than 5 years ago.
However, amidst all the happiness that my ex wife gain from the divorce, I’m very worried about my daughter, Aria Sheza. I hope as she grows older, she won’t be affected with the divorce. As a parent, I want her to grow like a normal kid with both parents by her side. Now that I can’t give her a normal life in a normal home, I have promised myself to be there always for her when needed.
My next step will be selling my house & move back to my parent’s place temporary. I’ll get my own place when I reach the age of 35 & that will be in 2 years 4 months time. Haha. I will definitely going to miss living in Toa Payoh after I move back to Woodlands.
I’m actually looking forward to the year 2010. I can feel it in my bone that it is going to be a good year for me. My utmost priority will be for my daughter Sheza. What ever things that I will be doing in year 2010 will be for her. So I must say Sheza will play a big part in my life’s progress from now on.
I have yet to mention to why my marriage failed terribly. Well, I’m not going to tell you today though. Hahaha. What I can say now is that you have to wait till next year June 2010 to know why my marrriage failed.
I have talked to many people & opening up to them about how my divorce got started initially. It’s quite surprising for me to find out later that it’s a very common issue among many of us especially in this generation. This issue does not only affect the married ones but also the single people!! Ya!! Surprising indeed! So keep on guessing on what make my marriage failed. Haha. But please take note that this is only one of the many reasons for my failed marriage. There are more minor reasons which make it worst. I will tell you the main reason followed by the minor ones next year June.
I shall stop here for now. See you in the next post. Have a great day!
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